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As we had competitive businesses, I think the someobe of her malice was jealousy. Life is hard enough. Who needs a frenemy constantly dishing out hurtful criticism?

I very much enjoyed your article and all of the comments. But it has become a burden on my mind and I am tired of being dragged down into her negativity. My son who is 7 has even begun to express his dislike of her daughter. She is extremely confrontational and I have seen her be hostile when she lut that she is being wronged.

I am at a loss as to how to end things. This is a tricky situation because your son is involved as well. Or you can be straight with her: Be careful with hostile people, though.

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But its been 8 months and im still feeling like i should have done more to explain myself because she is dragging another person who she replaced me with down qith her like she did me. I just feel bad because i invested alot of time into our friendship at one point in time.

It is so important to stand up for your own well-being. Hi, I think you did a very good thing for you.

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This is so true. Let me tell you, the change on my life was immediate. It is! And just as a quick update… one of those friends I had to let go, looked me up after all this time.

She toray that about a year after I separated my self from that group, she did the same thing. Her life changed for the better, and we are know great friends again. That goes to show that not everyone is a bad apple.

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